Finding Your Queer Family in Small-Town Arkansas
Ever wondered if you're the only LGBTQ+ person walking these Jonesboro streets? I promise you're not alone, even when it feels that way.
My Jonesboro Journey
When I first moved to Jonesboro for ASU, I spent three months convinced I was the only queer person in town. The sidewalks of Downtown Jonesboro felt both charming and isolating. I'd walk past Shadrachs Coffee wondering if anyone else there was like me, silently scanning for pride pins or subtle signals.
The Invisible Hurdles We Face
Living queer in Jonesboro comes with its unique challenges:
- The dating pool feels more like a dating puddle
- Finding safe spaces to be authentic
- Balancing visibility with safety
- Explaining pronouns for the hundredth time
- That constant coming-out cycle with new people
Finding Your People
Here's what eventually worked for me:
- The ASU Pride organization became my lifeline
- Foundation Arts' events often attract our community
- Online groups specific to NEA queer folks
- Those monthly drives to Little Rock for bigger community events
- Creating the space I couldn't find by hosting small gatherings
Remember, your queerness isn't diminished by geography. Your identity remains valid and beautiful whether you're in Jonesboro or New York City.
Has anyone else found creative ways to build community here? Share below - your story might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.