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Amos Levine
Amos Levine, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Broad-Shouldered
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Chef with a love for spicy food. Let’s turn up the heat!
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Ray Hebert
Ray Hebert, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Average
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Dog mom and fitness lover. Searching for someone to share morning jogs and lazy Sundays.
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Margarita Burns
Margarita Burns, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Curvy
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Film buff and aspiring director. Let’s discuss the nuances of cinema over popcorn.
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Chance Bullock
Chance Bullock, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Compact & Petite
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Pastry chef with a love for chocolate and all things sweet.
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Larissa Fleming
Larissa Fleming, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Plus-Size
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Skater girl who loves indie music and longboarding at sunset.
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Karina Witt
Karina Witt, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Some High School
Bio: Dog mom and yoga enthusiast. Love nature walks and deep conversations.
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Anfernee Faulkner
Anfernee Faulkner, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Trade School
Bio: Aspiring chef with a soft spot for Italian food. Seeking a taste tester for my creations.
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Roxanne Walton
Roxanne Walton, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Some College
Bio: Tech enthusiast and gamer. Enjoys hiking and late-night coding sessions.
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Nicholas Lawrence
Nicholas Lawrence, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Nature photographer and conservationist. Enjoys quiet hikes and wildlife spotting.
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Cierra Le
Cierra Le, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Poet and bookshop regular. Searching for someone who appreciates the beauty of words.
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Finding Your Rainbow in the Central Valley: My Queer Journey in Merced

Have you ever felt like the only rainbow fish swimming in a very straight pond? That was me when I first moved to Merced three years ago—wondering if I'd made a terrible mistake leaving my queer-friendly bubble in Oakland.

My Merced Story

I still remember that first week in town, wandering through downtown, desperately scanning for any subtle Pride flags or queer-coded signals. Nothing. Then came that magical night at the campus coffee shop when I spotted a person with a trans flag pin. I practically knocked over my chai latte rushing to introduce myself! That chance meeting led me to Merced's Hidden Queer Community—smaller than SF's Castro, sure, but just as vibrant in its own intimate way.

When It Gets Lonely

Let's be honest about the challenges:

  • Dating apps show the same 12 people in a 50-mile radius
  • Coming out repeatedly to new acquaintances gets exhausting
  • Finding explicitly queer-friendly spaces requires detective work
  • That feeling when straight friends say "I forget you're gay"

Creating Your Own Queer Magic

Here's what I've learned works in smaller communities like ours:

  • Start ridiculously small—even two queer people having coffee is a revolutionary act
  • UC Merced resources extend to non-students through their ally programs
  • Online communities can bridge physical isolation (our Discord server saved me)
  • Befriend the aunties! Local PFLAG parents often know everyone

Remember, your existence here makes Merced more colorful for the next queer person who arrives feeling alone. Your visibility matters. We're building something beautiful together, one connection at a time. Drop a comment about where you've found community here, or what you're still searching for—I promise you're not shouting into the void.