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Dion Mcmillan
Dion Mcmillan, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Curvy
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Trade School
Bio: Painter and lover of all things colorful. Seeking someone who brings light into my life.
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Stephanie Fuller
Stephanie Fuller, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Average
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Dog mom and yoga enthusiast. Love nature walks and deep conversations.
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Anthony Pratt
Anthony Pratt, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Photographer with a passion for capturing love in all forms.
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Mindy Mccray
Mindy Mccray, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Toned
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: PhD
Bio: Social worker with a heart for helping others. Kindness is my love language.
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Alvaro Prince
Alvaro Prince, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Bear
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Museum curator and history nerd. Let's time travel through art.
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Draven Berger
Draven Berger, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Toned
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Painter and dreamer. Looking for a muse to inspire my next masterpiece.
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Trever Olson
Trever Olson, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Artist and coffee aficionado. Searching for a fellow creative spirit.
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Lance Kirkland
Lance Kirkland, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Photographer who sees beauty in every moment. Let’s capture memories together.
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Irma Good
Irma Good, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Average
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Author and poet. Let's write the next great love story together.
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Clinton Mcneil
Clinton Mcneil, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Full-Figured
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Trade School
Bio: Artist and dreamer. Seeking someone who sees the world in colors as vivid as I do.
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Finding My Rainbow in Silicon Valley: A Queer Journey

Have you ever felt like an anomaly in a place that's supposedly one of the most progressive areas in America? That was me, three years ago, when I first moved to Palo Alto – armed with coding skills, rainbow pride, and absolutely zero connections.

My Palo Alto Awakening

I remember wandering through downtown Palo Alto on my first weekend here, surrounded by tech bros in Patagonia vests and Stanford students, wondering where all the queer folks were hiding. The rainbow flags were there during Pride month, sure, but where was the community I so desperately needed?

The Silicon Valley Queer Paradox

If you're feeling isolated here, you're not imagining it. Despite the Bay Area's inclusive reputation, finding your people comes with unique challenges:

  • The tech-work culture consumes so much time that building relationships feels impossible
  • Dating apps here often feel transactional and exhausting
  • Established queer spaces are scattered and sometimes inaccessible without a car
  • The high cost of living forces many queer folks to live with roommates well into adulthood

Creating Your Queer Oasis

What finally worked for me wasn't what I expected:

  • Join non-queer-specific hobby groups first – I found my people through a hiking club, of all places
  • Check out the LGBTQ+ events at Stanford (many are open to the public!)
  • The Billy DeFrank Center in San Jose hosts amazing events worth the drive
  • Consider expanding beyond Palo Alto to Mountain View and Redwood City

Remember, building your chosen family takes time, but it's worth every awkward meetup and long drive. Your people are here – I promise.

How did you find your community here? Drop your story below – someone might find their next friend in the comments! 💖🌈