Finding Home as a Queer Person in Rancho Cordova
Have you ever felt like you're constantly searching for your community in a place that wasn't designed with you in mind? That was me three years ago when I first moved to Rancho Cordova.
My Unexpected Journey in RC
I remember driving down Sunrise Boulevard, wondering if I'd ever find my people here. The Sacramento suburb seemed so different from the queer-friendly neighborhoods I'd known before. But then I discovered a small coffee shop with a tiny rainbow flag in the window. That's where I met Jamie, who introduced me to what would become my chosen family in this unexpected place.
The Invisible Struggle
Being queer in Rancho Cordova comes with unique challenges:
- The scattered nature of our community makes finding each other difficult
- Navigating spaces that aren't explicitly queer-friendly
- The constant coming out process with new neighbors and coworkers
- Finding dating prospects in a smaller community
Building Your Queer Sanctuary
What I've learned is that creating community takes intention here:
- Join the Lavender Library events that sometimes happen in Rancho Cordova
- Check out Gold Country Pride Center's satellite programs
- Create your own micro-gatherings at places like Sunset Park
- Be the visibility you wish to see in our community
Remember, your queerness is valid whether you're at a massive Pride parade or simply existing authentically in your Rancho Cordova apartment. Our stories matter here too.
Have you found unique ways to connect with other queer folks in Rancho Cordova? Share your experiences below – your insight might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.