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Gregorio Hill
Gregorio Hill, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Dad Bod
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Graphic novelist who loves all things fantasy and sci-fi.
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Kane Valdez
Kane Valdez, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Some College
Bio: Sci-fi geek and aspiring astronaut. Let’s explore the universe together.
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Toni Bowers
Toni Bowers, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Dog mom and fitness lover. Searching for someone to share morning jogs and lazy Sundays.
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Lauryn Bush
Lauryn Bush, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Bear
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: World traveler and culture enthusiast. Let’s explore the world one city at a time.
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Graham Hyde
Graham Hyde, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Slim
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Engineer by trade, musician by passion. Looking for someone who appreciates both logic and creativity.
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Nia Fernandez
Nia Fernandez, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Some College
Bio: Singer and songwriter. Looking for someone to inspire my next love song.
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Tessa Taylor
Tessa Taylor, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Tech nerd and gamer. Can you beat me at Mario Kart? Let’s find out!
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Sammy Larsen
Sammy Larsen, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Painter and lover of all things colorful. Seeking someone who brings light into my life.
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Conrad Lynn
Conrad Lynn, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Trade School
Bio: Fashion enthusiast and thrift store hunter. Seeking a partner in style.
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Darrion Bowman
Darrion Bowman, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Dancer and fitness coach. Passionate about wellness and a good smoothie.
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Finding Queer Joy in Sacramento: A Journey Worth Taking

Have you ever felt like you're the only queer person trying to navigate life in a city that sometimes feels too small and too big all at once? That was me, three years ago, standing awkwardly at a coffee shop on J Street, wondering if the rainbow pin on my backpack was too subtle or too loud.

My Sacramento Story

When I moved to Sacramento from the Bay Area, I worried I'd traded a thriving queer community for isolation. Those first months in Midtown, I'd walk through Lavender Heights, past Faces and The Depot, too nervous to enter alone. Then one rainy Tuesday, I ducked into the Lavender Library seeking shelter, finding instead a warm welcome and my first real connection to Sac's queer community.

The invisible hurdles we face

Let's be honest about the challenges:

  • The dating pool that somehow feels microscopic despite being in California's capital
  • That exhausting dance of figuring out which spaces are actually queer-friendly versus rainbow-capitalism
  • The isolation that can creep in, even surrounded by a million people
  • Navigating family gatherings when you're the "city queer" returning home

Finding your people

What I've learned works:

  • Start small: Sacramento LGBTQ+ Center hosts events where you can meet people one-on-one
  • Show up consistently: Try the monthly art walks or Sunday farmers markets where our community tends to gather
  • Be the organizer: Some of my closest friendships started when I created a queer book club at Old Soul Coffee
  • Embrace vulnerability: Tell people you're looking for connection—we're all craving it

Remember, feeling disconnected isn't a failure on your part. Building community takes time, especially in a place with Sacramento's unique blend of government workers, transplants, and locals.

What's your Sacramento queer story? I'd love to hear where you've found connection in our city—or where you're still looking. We're all figuring this out together, one awkward coffee shop visit at a time.