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Zackary Stevenson
Zackary Stevenson, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Some College
Bio: Loves astrology, tarot, and all things mystical.
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James Cross
James Cross, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Lean
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Ballet dancer and music lover. Let's dance through life together.
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Abel Durham
Abel Durham, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Trade School
Bio: Florist who finds beauty in the little things. Searching for a love that blooms.
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Jonatan Dudley
Jonatan Dudley, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Bear
Height: 5′6″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Craft beer enthusiast and trivia night champ. Let's grab a pint and chat.
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Athena Reilly
Athena Reilly, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: PhD
Bio: Chef with a love for spicy food. Let’s turn up the heat!
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Savon Miranda
Savon Miranda, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: PhD
Bio: Music lover and concert-goer. Let’s find our song together.
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Julio Noel
Julio Noel, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Compact & Petite
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Musician and hopeless romantic. Let’s write our own love symphony.
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Kenya Hickman
Kenya Hickman, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some College
Bio: Podcast host and news junkie. Looking for someone with big ideas.
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Ruby Mcdowell
Ruby Mcdowell, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′6″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Photographer with a passion for capturing love in all forms.
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Gonzalo Glenn
Gonzalo Glenn, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: PhD
Bio: Singer and songwriter. Looking for someone to inspire my next love song.
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Finding My Queer Community in San Bernardino: A Journey Home

Have you ever felt like you're searching for your people in a place that doesn't quite see you? That was me five years ago when I moved back to San Bernardino after college.

Desert Blooms in Unexpected Places

I remember my first week back—driving down Baseline Street, windows down, wondering if I'd made a mistake. The mountains stood majestically against the sky, but I worried the conservative reputation of the Inland Empire wouldn't leave space for my queer self to thrive. That first month, I sat alone at Mitla Cafe, scrolling through dating apps and seeing the same five profiles over and over.

When Being Visible Feels Impossible

The struggle was real. Dating options seemed limited. Making queer friends meant driving to LA or Palm Springs. I felt caught between:

  • Wanting to be authentically myself but feeling unsafe in certain spaces
  • Loving my hometown but feeling invisible within it
  • Craving community while navigating family expectations

Creating Space Where None Existed

Eventually, I realized waiting for community wasn't enough—I needed to help build it. I started small:

  • Found the tiny but mighty LGBTQ+ Center and volunteered
  • Organized monthly meetups at Augie's Coffee
  • Connected with queer faculty at CSUSB

Gradually, faces became friends. Friends became family.

You Are Not the Only One

If you're reading this feeling isolated, please know there are pockets of queer joy throughout this city. Your experience is valid, your presence matters, and you deserve to find your people right here at home.

What's your San Bernardino story? Share below how you're finding or creating community here. Every comment builds the map for someone else to find their way home too.