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Shannon Perkins
Shannon Perkins, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: PhD
Bio: Aspiring actor with a love for improv. Let’s see where life’s script takes us.
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Shanna Booth
Shanna Booth, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Broad-Shouldered
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Ballet dancer and music lover. Let's dance through life together.
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Janette Silva
Janette Silva, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Nature lover and hiking enthusiast. Let's get lost in the woods and find ourselves.
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Elsa Kramer
Elsa Kramer, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Broad-Shouldered
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Surfer and beach lover. Searching for a seaside romance.
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Isabelle Richmond
Isabelle Richmond, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Artist and dreamer. Seeking someone who sees the world in colors as vivid as I do.
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Carli Jacobs
Carli Jacobs, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Bookworm and aspiring novelist. Looking for someone to share cozy nights and deep conversations.
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Philip Pena
Philip Pena, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Plus-Size
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: PhD
Bio: Fashion enthusiast and thrift store hunter. Seeking a partner in style.
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Spenser Lynch
Spenser Lynch, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Slim
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: PhD
Bio: Bookworm with a passion for poetry. Loves quiet evenings with a good novel.
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Cheyenne Walton
Cheyenne Walton, 33 Online: Recently
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Cyclist and environmentalist. Let's ride into the sunset together.
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Andy Michael
Andy Michael, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Trade School
Bio: Passionate about social justice and volunteering. Let’s change the world together!
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Queer dating online in San Francisco, California – meet singles and find lasting love.

Finding Your Queer Family in the Fog City

Have you ever felt like you're surrounded by people yet somehow still alone? That was me three years ago when I first moved to San Francisco with nothing but two suitcases and a rainbow pin on my jacket.

When the Golden Gate Opened for Me

I still remember that first week in the Mission District, wandering through Dolores Park on a sunny Sunday afternoon. The Gay Beach section was buzzing with laughter, music, and the kind of unfiltered joy I'd only dreamed about. A group sharing a picnic invited me over simply because they saw me hovering awkwardly nearby. That spontaneous kindness changed everything for me.

The Invisible Walls We Face

Despite San Francisco's reputation as a queer haven, many of us still struggle with:

  • Dating apps that feel more like window shopping than connection-building
  • Friend groups that seem impenetrable when you're new
  • The pressure to perform a certain kind of queerness
  • Finding authentic community beyond the bar scene

Creating Your Chosen Family Blueprint

What worked for me wasn't grand gestures but consistent small steps:

  • Volunteer with organizations like the SF LGBT Center or LYRIC
  • Join queer book clubs at Dog Eared Books or outdoor groups like Out in the Bay
  • Attend smaller community events rather than just the big parties
  • Be vulnerably honest about being new and seeking connection

Remember, your queerness is enough. Your journey is valid. The family you're meant to build in this beautiful, foggy city is already forming around you, even when you can't see it yet.

What was your first week in SF like? Or if you're planning a move, what are you most nervous about? Share below—this community has your back.