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Derrick Wilkins
Derrick Wilkins, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Slender & Tall
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Therapist and mindfulness coach. Seeking a peaceful and loving connection.
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Benito Gordon
Benito Gordon, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Graphic designer and cat lover. Passionate about art, coffee, and late-night movie marathons.
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Zechariah Townsend
Zechariah Townsend, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Some High School
Bio: Teacher with a love for board games. Searching for someone to challenge me.
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Nelson Pittman
Nelson Pittman, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Dog mom and yoga enthusiast. Love nature walks and deep conversations.
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Dandre Rowland
Dandre Rowland, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: PhD
Bio: Foodie and amateur chef. I love exploring new cuisines and looking for someone to be my partner-in-crime at food festivals.
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Jamarcus Baker
Jamarcus Baker, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Compact & Petite
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Artist and dreamer. Seeking someone who sees the world in colors as vivid as I do.
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Angelina Blackwell
Angelina Blackwell, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Average
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Writer and poet. Looking for someone to inspire my next piece.
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Alex Cox
Alex Cox, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: PhD
Bio: Classical musician and orchestra member. Let’s create harmony together.
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Deshaun Branch
Deshaun Branch, 33 Online: Recently
Body Type: Toned
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Surfer and beach lover. Searching for a seaside romance.
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Mariah Sears
Mariah Sears, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Fashion enthusiast and thrift store hunter. Seeking a partner in style.
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Finding My Queer Family in Silicon Valley: A Journey of Belonging

Have you ever felt like a rainbow in a sea of grayscale, vibrant but somehow invisible? That was me when I first moved to Santa Clara three years ago.

My Silicon Valley Story

I arrived in Santa Clara with two suitcases, a job offer from a tech company, and absolutely zero queer connections. Those first months wandering through Santana Row and sitting alone at Mission College cafeteria felt like wearing a mask I couldn't remove. Silicon Valley's obsession with innovation somehow hadn't fully extended to creating visible queer spaces beyond the occasional corporate Pride flag in June.

When Being "The Only One" Gets Lonely

The struggle is real when you're trying to date in a place where:

  • Dating apps show the same 20 profiles in rotation
  • Coffee shops don't obviously code as queer-friendly spaces
  • Making the first move feels like coming out repeatedly
  • Work-life balance barely exists, let alone queer community time

Creating Queer Connection in Tech-Land

What actually worked for me was abandoning the search for "designated" queer spaces and instead creating them myself. I started a tiny queer book club that now meets monthly at Central Park. Found my people through volunteering at the LGBTQ+ Youth Space downtown. Connected with other queer professionals through industry meetups where I deliberately wore my identity proudly.

Remember, your queerness is a superpower here—it gives you perspective that Silicon Valley desperately needs, even when it doesn't know it yet.

You Are Not Alone

Drop a comment about your own Santa Clara queer experience! Where have you found community in unexpected places? What spaces should we be creating together?