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Javier York
Javier York, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Bear
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Aspiring novelist who thrives on coffee and late-night writing sessions.
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Casey Kennedy
Casey Kennedy, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Plus-Size
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Folk musician and nature lover. Let’s make music in the mountains.
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Mitchel Howe
Mitchel Howe, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Average
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Ballet dancer and fitness lover. I believe in love as graceful as a pirouette.
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Stewart Alvarez
Stewart Alvarez, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Bear
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Artist and coffee aficionado. Searching for a fellow creative spirit.
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Georgia Macdonald
Georgia Macdonald, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: PhD
Bio: Gardener with a love for sustainability. Let’s grow something beautiful together.
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Yasmeen Cunningham
Yasmeen Cunningham, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′6″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Animal lover and volunteer at a local shelter. Let’s bond over our love for furry friends!
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Eboni Terrell
Eboni Terrell, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Graphic novelist who loves all things fantasy and sci-fi.
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Lesly Scott
Lesly Scott, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Vegan chef and plant lover. Searching for someone to share a cruelty-free life with.
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Efren Weiss
Efren Weiss, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Fitness coach by day, Netflix binger by night. Looking for someone to keep me on my toes.
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Alonso Glover
Alonso Glover, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Bookworm with a passion for poetry. Loves quiet evenings with a good novel.
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Finding My Queer Joy in Suburban Simi Valley

Ever wonder what it's like to be the only rainbow in a beige suburban landscape? That was me five years ago when I moved to Simi Valley, California—a place known more for its conservative reputation than its queer-friendly spaces.

My Simi Valley Story

I remember my first week here vividly. Walking through the Simi Valley Town Center, holding my partner's hand with a mix of defiance and anxiety. The sideways glances weren't imagined, but neither was the elderly woman who smiled warmly at us and said, "You two make a lovely couple." That moment taught me Simi Valley contained multitudes.

The Suburban Queer Struggle Is Real

Let's be honest about the challenges:

  • The dating pool feels more like a dating puddle
  • Finding queer-friendly spaces requires detective skills
  • Building community when you're visibly "different" in a homogeneous area
  • Navigating family restaurants where you're the only visibly queer couple

Creating Your Queer Oasis

What I've learned works:

  • Be the space you seek - I started a monthly potluck that grew from 3 to 30 people
  • Connect with allies at local coffee shops like Honey Cup
  • Venture to nearby Thousand Oaks' LGBTQ+ meetups
  • Join online Ventura County queer groups that plan in-person events

Remember, suburban queerness isn't lesser than urban queerness—it's just differently textured. Your visibility here matters more than you know.

You Are Not Alone

On days when Simi Valley feels too small, too beige, or too isolating, please remember there are others like us creating colorful lives between these suburban streets. We're here, we're queer, and we're making this valley home—one potluck, bookclub, and held hand at a time.