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Armando Butler
Armando Butler, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Film buff and aspiring director. Let’s discuss the nuances of cinema over popcorn.
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Benny Lott
Benny Lott, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Single
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Lover of art museums and cozy bookstores. Let’s get lost in a world of creativity.
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Salena Aguirre
Salena Aguirre, 33 Online: Recently
Body Type: Slender & Tall
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Trade School
Bio: Social worker with a heart for helping others. Kindness is my love language.
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Willie Cooley
Willie Cooley, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Slim
Height: 6′3″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Film buff and aspiring director. Let's make our own cinematic love story.
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Tracey Macias
Tracey Macias, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Bear
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Stand-up comedian and improv lover. Looking for someone to laugh with.
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Felicia Rhodes
Felicia Rhodes, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Librarian with a passion for classic literature and quiet afternoons.
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Unknown Lambert
Unknown Lambert, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Fashion designer with an eye for detail. Looking for someone who appreciates style and authenticity.
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Grayson England
Grayson England, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Photographer who sees beauty in every moment. Let’s capture memories together.
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Jefferson Mcintyre
Jefferson Mcintyre, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Slender & Tall
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Tea connoisseur and cozy bookshop explorer.
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Jade Moore
Jade Moore, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Makeup artist and self-care queen. Looking for someone to binge-watch beauty tutorials with.
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Ever Wondered What It's Like Being Queer in Suburban Orange County?

I still remember the first time I walked into that little coffee shop on Beach Boulevard in Stanton, rainbow pin nervously attached to my jacket. Would anyone notice? Would anyone care? Would I find my people here in this small corner of Orange County?

Finding My Queer Oasis in Stanton

Three years ago, I moved to Stanton for work—trading the visible queer community of Long Beach for what I thought would be suburban isolation. The first months were quiet. I'd drive to neighboring cities for any sense of belonging, until I discovered that tiny gathering at the community center where local LGBTQ+ folks met monthly. Sometimes just five of us showed up, but those connections became my lifeline.

When Dating Apps Just Don't Cut It

Let's talk about the real struggles:

  • The dating pool feels microscopic (swiping through the same 12 profiles repeatedly)
  • Coming out repeatedly to new neighbors and colleagues
  • Finding safe spaces when they're not clearly marked
  • That constant mental calculation: Is it safe to hold hands here?

Creating Community Where You Are

What I've learned is that sometimes we need to build what we can't find. Start small:

  • Host rotating dinner gatherings at your place
  • Connect with neighboring cities' established LGBTQ+ groups
  • Create virtual spaces when physical ones aren't accessible
  • Become the "out" person that helps others find their way to you

Remember that your authenticity creates ripples. Every time I wear my identity openly in Stanton, someone whispers "me too" or "my kid is queer"—conversations that build our invisible community.

You're not alone here, even when it feels that way. Our suburban queer existence might look different than in bigger cities, but it's just as real, just as vibrant.

What's your experience been like? Have you found your people in unexpected places? Share below—your story might be exactly what someone else needs to read today.