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Gerard Kaufman
Gerard Kaufman, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Toned
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some High School
Bio: Outdoor enthusiast who loves hiking, kayaking, and exploring nature.
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Jayden Giles
Jayden Giles, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Loves astrology, tarot, and all things mystical.
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Amelia Cameron
Amelia Cameron, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Bear
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Some High School
Bio: Graphic novelist who loves all things fantasy and sci-fi.
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Dallin Nichols
Dallin Nichols, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Curvy
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some College
Bio: Dog parent and nature enthusiast. Let’s go for a hike with my furry friend.
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Hana Ortega
Hana Ortega, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Trade School
Bio: Self-proclaimed geek who loves board games and sci-fi. Let's have a game night!
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Jana Stanton
Jana Stanton, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some High School
Bio: Coffee enthusiast and aspiring barista. Let’s find the best café in town together.
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Kaley Albert
Kaley Albert, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Trade School
Bio: Dog parent and marathon runner. Looking for someone to share long walks and lazy Sundays.
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Justice Winters
Justice Winters, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Comedy writer who loves making people laugh. Let’s share some jokes.
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Ana Singleton
Ana Singleton, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Vegan chef and plant lover. Searching for someone to share a cruelty-free life with.
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Mary Sweet
Mary Sweet, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Broad-Shouldered
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Elementary school teacher with a passion for creativity and kindness.
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Finding Your Queer Haven in Upland: My Journey to Belonging

Have you ever felt like the only rainbow in a monochrome landscape? That was me three years ago when I first moved to Upland, California—a beautiful city nestled at the foothills of the San Gabriel Mountains, but not exactly known as a queer epicenter.

My Upland Awakening

I remember walking through Memorial Park on a crisp autumn afternoon, wondering if I'd ever find my people here. The jacaranda trees were bare, much like my social calendar. I had left my vibrant queer community in Oakland for a job opportunity, and the isolation was hitting harder than expected. Those first months, I'd drive to Claremont or make the trek to LA just to be around other LGBTQ+ folks.

The Invisible Weight We Carry

Let's be honest about the challenges we face:

  • The constant energy of coming out to new neighbors and coworkers
  • Dating apps that show matches 45+ minutes away
  • The subtle code-switching at local businesses
  • Wondering if that coffee shop is actually safe for holding hands

Creating Your Queer Oasis

What changed everything for me wasn't finding the perfect queer community—it was building one. Start small:

  • Connect with the Pride Center at nearby colleges
  • Join Upland community Facebook groups and be visibly you
  • Frequent allied businesses (I've found Commonspace Brewery to be wonderfully inclusive)
  • Host gatherings, even tiny ones

Remember, your authenticity creates space for others to find you. Every time I wore my pronoun pin at Target, someone would give me that knowing nod of recognition.

You're Not Alone Here

The beauty of Upland isn't just in its citrus groves and mountain views—it's in the pockets of community waiting to be discovered. We're here, sometimes hidden, but always resilient. Your queer joy is both an act of courage and invitation.

How have you found or created queer community in smaller cities? Share your experience below—your story might be exactly what another person needs to hear today.