Finding Your Rainbow in Castle Rock: A Queer Journey
Have you ever felt like the only rainbow in a cloudless sky? That's how I felt when I first moved to Castle Rock three years ago—visible, exposed, and somehow still invisible.
My Castle Rock Beginning
The first time I walked down Front Street, I was struck by the mountain views and small-town charm, but also wondered: where are my people? I remember sitting alone at The Barn café, watching families and couples, feeling like an outsider looking in. Yet within months, I discovered pockets of queer joy hidden throughout our town—from the barista who recognized my pride pin with a knowing smile to the monthly meetups at Philip S. Miller Park.
When Being Yourself Feels Impossible
Let's be honest about the challenges:
- Dating apps show matches 30+ miles away
- Well-meaning neighbors asking about your "friend"
- Feeling hesitant to hold hands in public spaces
- Conservative local politics that sometimes forget we exist
Creating Your Queer Oasis
Here's what I've learned works:
- Expand your radius - Connect with Denver and Colorado Springs communities
- Join the Castle Rock LGBTQ+ Facebook group (yes, it exists!)
- Attend inclusive events at Rock Church or the library's monthly book club
- Be the visibility you crave—subtle pride accessories speak volumes
Remember, your authenticity creates space for others. Every time I've been bravely myself, someone has whispered "me too."
You aren't alone here among these beautiful rocks and open skies. Our community might be scattered, but we're here, creating homes and lives worth celebrating.
How did you find your people in Castle Rock? Share below and let's build our map of belonging together.