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Edith Fletcher
Edith Fletcher, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Some High School
Bio: Aspiring actor with a love for improv. Let’s see where life’s script takes us.
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Quinn Watson
Quinn Watson, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Personal trainer and nutrition coach. Health and happiness are my priorities.
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Elias Mclaughlin
Elias Mclaughlin, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Lover of dance, poetry, and deep conversations under the stars.
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Erin Hopper
Erin Hopper, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Tech enthusiast and gamer. Enjoys hiking and late-night coding sessions.
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Asher Todd
Asher Todd, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Single
Education: PhD
Bio: Therapist and mindfulness coach. Seeking a peaceful and loving connection.
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Tamara Jensen
Tamara Jensen, 33 Online: Recently
Body Type: Dad Bod
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Sci-fi geek and aspiring astronaut. Let’s explore the universe together.
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Corey Kemp
Corey Kemp, 33 Online: Recently
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Some College
Bio: Poet and bookshop regular. Searching for someone who appreciates the beauty of words.
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Janie Oneill
Janie Oneill, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Yoga teacher and mindfulness coach. Seeking peace, love, and connection.
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Tiera Rojas
Tiera Rojas, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Astronomy nerd who loves stargazing and deep space talks.
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Elizabeth Bailey
Elizabeth Bailey, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: PhD
Bio: Music festival junkie and adventure seeker. Let’s dance under the stars.
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Does Anyone Else Feel Like They're Living Two Lives in Connecticut?

Last week at a coffee shop in West Hartford, I overheard someone say "Connecticut is New England's best-kept queer secret" and I nearly spat out my latte. Truth bomb: they're absolutely right.

My Connecticut Queer Journey

Moving from rural Pennsylvania to New Haven five years ago, I expected more rainbow flags but fewer actual safe spaces. Instead, I found myself at a drag brunch in Middletown where the queen recognized me from a dating app and announced it to the entire restaurant. Mortifying? Yes. But also the moment I realized Connecticut had its own vibrant queer ecosystem that nobody was talking about.

The Invisible Bridge

The struggle is real though. Connecticut queerness feels like:

  • Having LGBTQ+ friendly policies but still explaining your pronouns repeatedly
  • Finding queer-friendly bars but struggling to form deeper connections
  • Dating apps showing the same 12 people for months
  • Constantly driving between towns to maintain your fragmented community

Creating Your Queer Connecticut Map

What's working for me:

  • Following local queer organizers on social media (game-changer)
  • Attending True Colors events even when I'm feeling antisocial
  • Creating the spaces I wish existed (my monthly queer book club started with just 3 people!)
  • Embracing the smallness—in NYC you're anonymous, here you're known

Remember, your Connecticut queer experience isn't just valid—it's vital to our collective tapestry. The quietness of our community doesn't mean isolation; it means we create deeper connections when we find each other.

Drop a 💙 if you're part of queer CT, and tell me: what space did you create when you couldn't find the one you needed?