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Lizeth Melton
Lizeth Melton, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Toned
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: English teacher and poet. Searching for someone who loves deep conversations and rainy days.
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Imani Bradshaw
Imani Bradshaw, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Some College
Bio: Adventure seeker and scuba diver. Let’s dive deep, literally and metaphorically.
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Andy Kaufman
Andy Kaufman, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Trade School
Bio: Loves astrology, tarot, and all things mystical.
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Kerri Fitzpatrick
Kerri Fitzpatrick, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Some High School
Bio: Nature lover and hiking enthusiast. Let's get lost in the woods and find ourselves.
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Infant Richard
Infant Richard, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Bear
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Trade School
Bio: Yogi and meditation enthusiast. Let’s grow together in peace and love.
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Clay Lowe
Clay Lowe, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Tall
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Trade School
Bio: Law student and passionate debater. Let’s discuss philosophy over a glass of wine.
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Iridian Grant
Iridian Grant, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Dad Bod
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Some College
Bio: College student and aspiring journalist. Searching for a great story—and a great love.
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Alec Weiss
Alec Weiss, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Full-Figured
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Stand-up comedian and podcast host. Looking for someone to laugh with.
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Jeff Edwards
Jeff Edwards, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Dog mom and fitness lover. Searching for someone to share morning jogs and lazy Sundays.
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Kaela Holcomb
Kaela Holcomb, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Florist who finds beauty in the little things. Searching for a love that blooms.
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Finding Queer Joy in the Elm City: My New Haven Journey

Have you ever felt simultaneously lost and found in a city that somehow becomes your home before you even realize it? That's exactly how New Haven wrapped itself around my heart three years ago when I stepped off that Metro-North train with nothing but two suitcases and a dream.

My New Haven Story

The first time I wandered into a tiny coffee shop on Orange Street, the barista—sporting a pronoun pin and rainbow bracelet—gave me that nod. You know the one. The "I see you, you're safe here" nod that only queer folks know how to exchange. Within weeks, I found myself at partner drag brunches at 168 York Street Cafe, picnicking with new friends on the New Haven Green, and finally breathing easier than I had in years.

When Community Feels Elusive

But let's be honest—it wasn't always rainbow crosswalks and chosen family dinners.

  • Dating apps here sometimes feel like you're seeing the same 15 people over and over
  • Winter isolation is REAL when you're new and don't have your queer circle established
  • Finding specifically queer spaces beyond bars can feel nearly impossible
  • Building authentic connections sometimes feels harder than finishing a Yale degree

Creating Your Queer Haven in New Haven

Start small with consistent visits to queer-friendly spaces. The LGBTQ+ youth center downtown hosts events even for us "older" 20-30 somethings. The monthly queer book club at People Get Ready bookstore became my gateway to meaningful friendships.

Remember, your queerness is never a burden—it's your superpower in connecting authentically with others who understand parts of your journey without explanation. You are never as alone in this city as late-night anxiety might have you believe.

What's your New Haven queer experience been like? Drop a comment below or DM me if you're looking for specific recommendations. This community grows stronger every time we share our stories.