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Trae Alston
Trae Alston, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Fashion designer with an eye for detail. Looking for someone who appreciates style and authenticity.
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Kacie York
Kacie York, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′6″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Dog parent and nature enthusiast. Let’s go for a hike with my furry friend.
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Infant Preston
Infant Preston, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Average
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Painter and lover of all things colorful. Seeking someone who brings light into my life.
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Ronald Gutierrez
Ronald Gutierrez, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some High School
Bio: Astronomy nerd who loves stargazing and deep space talks.
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Jairo Barron
Jairo Barron, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Trade School
Bio: Veterinarian with a soft spot for rescue animals.
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Quincy Dillard
Quincy Dillard, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Trade School
Bio: Ballet dancer and music lover. Let's dance through life together.
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Rodney Solomon
Rodney Solomon, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Avid reader and fantasy nerd. Let’s escape to magical worlds together.
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Kaylin Delgado
Kaylin Delgado, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Toned
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some High School
Bio: Gardener with a love for sustainability. Let’s grow something beautiful together.
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Bobby Melendez
Bobby Melendez, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Petite
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Cyclist and environmentalist. Let's ride into the sunset together.
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Shana Sosa
Shana Sosa, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Bookworm and aspiring novelist. Looking for someone to share cozy nights and deep conversations.
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Queer dating online in Honolulu, Hawaii – meet singles, connect, and start dating today.

Have You Ever Felt Like an Island Within an Island?

The first time I saw Waikiki's sunset as my authentic self, I cried. Not just because of its beauty (though those pink-orange hues were everything), but because after years of hiding, I was finally me in paradise.

My Honolulu Journey

Three years ago, I moved to Honolulu thinking the progressive paradise would immediately embrace this queer transplant. Reality? It was complicated. While sipping coffee at Arvo in Kakaako, I'd watch seemingly effortless social interactions happening around me, wondering why building my community felt so difficult despite the aloha spirit everyone talked about.

The Paradise Paradox

Finding your people in Honolulu as a queer person comes with unique challenges:

  • The transient nature of island life means connections often come with expiration dates
  • Tourist-focused queer spaces sometimes lack depth for locals and transplants
  • Island geography creates distinct communities that rarely overlap
  • Cultural nuances that mainland queer experiences don't prepare you for

Creating Your Own Lei of Connection

What finally worked for me:

  • Volunteering at Hawaii LGBT Legacy Foundation events
  • Joining non-queer activities (my surfing group eventually revealed fellow rainbow riders)
  • Embracing "talk story" culture—authentic relationships here develop slowly, beautifully
  • Finding my space at monthly events at Scarlet Honolulu rather than forcing myself into weekend crowds

Remember that your queer experience here is valid whether you're finding community through traditional paths or creating something entirely new. The islands have always honored those who live authentically.

Share Your Honolulu Story

I found my ohana eventually. Are you still searching, or have you found yours? Your experience matters, and someone else might see themselves in your words.