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Darrell Mosley
Darrell Mosley, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Trade School
Bio: Music geek and vinyl collector. Searching for someone who can vibe to my eclectic playlist.
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Darryl Cook
Darryl Cook, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Museum curator and history nerd. Let's time travel through art.
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Brendon Ewing
Brendon Ewing, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: PhD
Bio: Outdoor enthusiast who loves hiking, kayaking, and exploring nature.
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Larissa Floyd
Larissa Floyd, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Tech enthusiast and gamer. Enjoys hiking and late-night coding sessions.
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Jevon Oconnor
Jevon Oconnor, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Curvy
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Trade School
Bio: Music lover and concert-goer. Let’s find our song together.
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Hudson Crosby
Hudson Crosby, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 6′3″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Aspiring filmmaker who loves storytelling and cinematography.
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Celena Pugh
Celena Pugh, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Student and part-time barista. Passionate about social justice and good coffee.
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Nancy Williams
Nancy Williams, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Dad Bod
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some College
Bio: Music festival junkie and adventure seeker. Let’s dance under the stars.
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Mackenzie Dejesus
Mackenzie Dejesus, 33 Online: Recently
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Single
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Film buff and aspiring director. Let’s discuss the nuances of cinema over popcorn.
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Auston Pierce
Auston Pierce, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Sci-fi geek and aspiring astronaut. Let’s explore the universe together.
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Meet Queer singles in Illinois – online dating that fits your needs and desires.

Ever Felt Like You're Hiding Two Different Versions of Yourself?

That's exactly where I found myself when I moved to Illinois three years ago. The cornfields stretched endlessly outside my window as I wondered if I'd ever find my people in this new place.

My Prairie State Coming Out Story

I still remember that first winter in Chicago—brutal winds whipping off Lake Michigan as I navigated both the CTA and coming out to new colleagues. There was that awkward holiday party where I mentioned "my partner" and watched everyone's momentary calculation before responding. Some days I felt like I was living in two worlds: the professional one where I carefully measured my words, and the authentic one I saved for safer spaces.

The Invisible Tightrope We Walk

Being queer in Illinois means navigating:

  • The progressive bubble of Chicago versus smaller town realities
  • Finding community beyond the obvious gay bars and pride events
  • That constant mental calculation of when and where it's safe to hold hands
  • Building friendship circles that truly get your experience

Creating Your Chosen Family Here

What's worked for me is looking beyond the obvious spaces. The LGBTQ+ book club at the Carbondale library introduced me to some of my closest friends. Virtual meetups through Illinois queer hiking groups connected me with people before I even met them in person. Sometimes family is found in unexpected corners of this state.

You are never as alone as you feel in those first vulnerable moments. For every cornfield there's a pocket of community waiting, and for every uncomfortable silence there's someone else looking for connection just like you.

Where have you found your people in Illinois? Share your story below—your experience might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.