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Randi Herman
Randi Herman, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Gardener with a love for sustainability. Let’s grow something beautiful together.
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Isaiah Lott
Isaiah Lott, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Compact & Petite
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Singer-songwriter looking for someone to inspire my next hit.
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Payton Cantu
Payton Cantu, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Single
Education: Trade School
Bio: Astronomy nerd who loves stargazing and deep space talks.
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Devonte Arnold
Devonte Arnold, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some College
Bio: Dog parent and marathon runner. Looking for someone to share long walks and lazy Sundays.
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Sylvia Mckinney
Sylvia Mckinney, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Trade School
Bio: Cosplay enthusiast and anime lover. Let’s go to conventions together!
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Benny Flowers
Benny Flowers, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Gardener and tea lover. Seeking someone who enjoys quiet mornings and blooming flowers.
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Deandre Strickland
Deandre Strickland, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Animal rescuer and advocate. Searching for a fellow animal lover.
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Janette Mcgowan
Janette Mcgowan, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Slender & Tall
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Some High School
Bio: Artist and dreamer. Seeking someone who sees the world in colors as vivid as I do.
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Raquel Holmes
Raquel Holmes, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Sci-fi geek and aspiring astronaut. Let’s explore the universe together.
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Desean Davenport
Desean Davenport, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some College
Bio: Stand-up comedian and improv lover. Looking for someone to laugh with.
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Finding Queer Joy in Calumet City: My Journey Home

Have you ever felt like your identity was both invisible and overly scrutinized at the same time? That's how I felt growing up queer in Calumet City, Illinois—until I found my community in the most unexpected places.

My Calumet City Story

When I moved back to Calumet City after college, I braced myself for the isolation I remembered from my teens. The first month was exactly as I feared—driving to Chicago whenever I craved queer spaces, feeling like my authentic self existed only beyond city limits. Then came that rainy Tuesday at the Wolf Lake Memorial Park when I noticed a small pride pin on another hiker's backpack. One conversation led to another, and suddenly my hometown transformed.

The Dating Desert Struggle

Let's be real—finding connection here isn't always easy. The dating apps often show zero matches within a 10-mile radius, and sometimes the closest queer events are a significant drive away. Many of us face:

  • The exhaustion of constantly coming out to new people
  • Finding safe spaces to be openly affectionate
  • Building queer friendship circles without big-city resources
  • Navigating family relationships in a close-knit community

Creating Your Queer Home Here

What I've learned is that we are everywhere, even when invisible. Try:

  • Joining the Southland Pride group that meets monthly at the public library
  • Looking for subtle pride symbols at local businesses (Rainbow Coffee's name isn't just about colors!)
  • Starting small gatherings at your home for fellow LGBTQ+ folks
  • Connecting with Chicago's larger community while building here

Remember, your queerness is valid whether you're at a parade downtown or quietly existing at River Oaks Mall. You're never truly alone in this journey.

Would love to hear how you've found community in Calumet City or nearby suburbs. Share your story below—you never know who needs to hear exactly what you've experienced.