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Selene Higgins
Selene Higgins, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Fashion designer with an eye for detail. Looking for someone who appreciates style and authenticity.
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Stuart Sharpe
Stuart Sharpe, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Loves astrology, tarot, and all things mystical.
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Magdalena Frank
Magdalena Frank, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Full-Figured
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Fashion design student with a passion for bold colors and self-expression.
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Emilio Gilliam
Emilio Gilliam, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Single
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Stand-up comedian and improv lover. Looking for someone to laugh with.
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Colleen Welch
Colleen Welch, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Trade School
Bio: DIY queen and plant mom. Let’s build something beautiful together.
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Kolton Abbott
Kolton Abbott, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Nature lover and hiking enthusiast. Let's get lost in the woods and find ourselves.
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Shyann Lynch
Shyann Lynch, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′6″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Trade School
Bio: Stand-up comedian and podcast host. Looking for someone to laugh with.
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Tristin Mcmahon
Tristin Mcmahon, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Nature lover who enjoys weekend camping trips. Seeking someone to stargaze with.
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Tina Cotton
Tina Cotton, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Average
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: PhD
Bio: Law student and passionate debater. Let’s discuss philosophy over a glass of wine.
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Tonya Sexton
Tonya Sexton, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Busty
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Trade School
Bio: Fitness junkie and smoothie expert. Let’s share workout tips and green smoothies.
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Finding Ourselves Between the Fox River's Shores: My Queer Journey in Carpentersville

Have you ever felt like you're the only rainbow fish swimming upstream in a river of sameness? That's exactly how I felt when I first moved to Carpentersville five years ago.

My Fox Valley Awakening

The Fox River winding through our suburban landscape became my thinking spot. On those wooden benches near Carpenter Park, I came to terms with who I truly am. Carpentersville, with its mix of brick buildings and strip malls, wasn't exactly marketed as a queer haven, but somehow between the Meadowdale Shopping Center and the historic district, I found fragments of myself reflected in unexpected places.

When Being "The Only One" Gets Heavy

Let's be honest about the struggles:

  • Dating apps show the nearest prospects 20+ miles away in neighboring suburbs
  • The sideways glances at Woodman's when holding hands
  • The exhaustion of being everyone's "first queer friend" they've known in town
  • Finding community spaces that aren't a long drive to Chicago

Creating Ripples in Still Waters

Here's what's helped me thrive here:

  • Our monthly meetups at Skippy's Gyros (the owner's niece is family and keeps the back room open for us)
  • Connecting with the surprisingly active PFLAG chapter in Elgin
  • Using the Dundee Township Library as our unofficial community center
  • Finding allies at the summer festivals along the riverfront

Remember, our visibility in smaller communities like Carpentersville doesn't just help us—it creates space for those still finding their courage.

You're not alone between these river banks. Our queer community might be scattered through the neighborhoods, but we're here, creating beautiful lives in this suburban landscape.

How about you? Are you navigating queer life in a smaller community? Share your Carpentersville stories below or join our monthly meetup—first Thursday at Skippy's, 7PM. All are welcome.