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Darion Norton
Darion Norton, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Divorced
Education: PhD
Bio: Outdoor enthusiast who loves hiking, kayaking, and exploring nature.
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Tyson Mcconnell
Tyson Mcconnell, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Toned
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some College
Bio: Fitness enthusiast and aspiring chef. Loves morning runs and trying new recipes.
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Dallas Bird
Dallas Bird, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Passionate about social justice and community work. Let’s change the world together.
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Alec Richardson
Alec Richardson, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Singer and songwriter. Looking for someone to inspire my next love song.
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Lesley Simmons
Lesley Simmons, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Compact & Petite
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Astronomy nerd who loves stargazing and deep space talks.
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Esperanza Bauer
Esperanza Bauer, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Full-Figured
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Fashion model and stylist. Love dressing up and making life glamorous.
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Roxanne Crosby
Roxanne Crosby, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Law student and passionate debater. Let’s discuss philosophy over a glass of wine.
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Dallin Mcclure
Dallin Mcclure, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Broad-Shouldered
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Personal trainer and nutrition coach. Health and happiness are my priorities.
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Ulises Hardin
Ulises Hardin, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some College
Bio: Animal lover and volunteer at a local shelter. Let’s bond over our love for furry friends!
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Malik Delacruz
Malik Delacruz, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Compact & Petite
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Librarian with a passion for classic literature and quiet afternoons.
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Meet Queer singles online in South Bend, Indiana – a simple way to find love.

Does Anyone Else Feel Like Being Queer in South Bend Is Both Beautiful and Challenging?

I still remember that first winter here, walking along the St. Joseph River with snow crunching beneath my boots, wondering if I'd ever find my people in this midwestern college town.

My South Bend Story

When I moved here three years ago, I was immediately struck by the strange duality of this place - Notre Dame's golden dome looming over a city still finding its progressive voice. Those first months were lonely. I'd wander into cafés downtown, hoping someone might notice the subtle pride pin on my jacket. Sometimes they did. More often, they didn't.

The Invisible Tightrope

  • Finding queer-friendly spaces beyond The Well (our only dedicated LGBTQ+ venue)
  • Dating apps that show the same 12 people within a 50-mile radius
  • Navigating family visits when half the restaurants feel politically charged
  • The constant coming out to new coworkers, neighbors, and service providers

What's Actually Working For Me

I've discovered that creating the community I wanted meant becoming its catalyst. The monthly potlucks I started in my apartment now draw 20+ queer folks. We've built something beautiful through intention rather than convenience.

Finding queer joy here means embracing the in-between spaces: poetry nights at Ugly Mugs, volleyball at Howard Park, and the surprisingly affirming UU congregation.

You're Not Invisible Here

On days when South Bend feels too small or too conservative, remember that we're here, creating pockets of belonging in everyday spaces. Your existence makes this city more vibrant, more authentic.

What spaces have you carved out? Where do you find your people in South Bend? Share below - your insight might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.