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Lara Sargent
Lara Sargent, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some High School
Bio: Nature lover and hiking enthusiast. Let's get lost in the woods and find ourselves.
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Deion Mcintosh
Deion Mcintosh, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Fitness junkie and smoothie expert. Let’s share workout tips and green smoothies.
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Trace Rose
Trace Rose, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Plus-Size
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Fashion blogger and makeup enthusiast. Let’s be fabulous together!
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Molly Pearson
Molly Pearson, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Plus-Size
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Guitarist and vinyl collector. Let's make sweet music together.
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Deja Grimes
Deja Grimes, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Busty
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Some High School
Bio: Film buff and aspiring director. Let's make our own cinematic love story.
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Dillion Mcleod
Dillion Mcleod, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Some High School
Bio: Outdoor enthusiast who loves hiking, kayaking, and exploring nature.
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August Hendricks
August Hendricks, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some High School
Bio: Podcast host and news junkie. Looking for someone with big ideas.
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Jacoby Clayton
Jacoby Clayton, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Slender & Tall
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Trade School
Bio: DIY queen and plant mom. Let’s build something beautiful together.
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Judith Donovan
Judith Donovan, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Architect and design lover. Appreciates fine art and cozy spaces.
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Daryl Manning
Daryl Manning, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Curvy
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Lover of art museums and cozy bookstores. Let’s get lost in a world of creativity.
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Meet Queer singles online in Kentucky – your match is just a click away.

Have You Ever Felt Like the Only Rainbow in a Gray Kentucky Sky?

Growing up in rural Appalachia, I used to count the miles between pride flags like counting stars—rare, precious, and too far apart. The first time I saw another queer person at the Lexington Pride festival, I felt like I could finally exhale a breath I'd been holding for 19 years.

Finding My People in Bluegrass Country

When I moved back to Kentucky after college, I brought my partner and all my big-city expectations. We settled in a small town where the church-to-bar ratio was about 10:1, and quickly learned that queer visibility here meant something different. Our neighbor brought us a casserole and whispered, "My nephew is like you. Thank you for being here." That casserole tasted like progress.

The Dating App Desert

Let's talk about trying to date or make friends here:

  • That moment when your dating app radius keeps expanding until it hits Cincinnati
  • Being asked if you're "related to any other gays" at the one LGBTQ+ mixer in town
  • Driving two hours for a mediocre date because options are limited
  • The dreaded "I've never met another queer person before!"

Building Your Kentucky Queer Family

What's worked for me and could work for you:

  • Look beyond obvious spaces—my knitting circle has more queers than our town's only bar
  • Create the events you wish existed (my monthly potluck saved my sanity)
  • Connect online with regional groups, then arrange meetups
  • Embrace the unexpected allies—that librarian with the rainbow pin might be your gateway to community

Remember, your Kentucky queer experience is valid. Our visibility here matters more than we know. Each of us is a lighthouse for someone still searching in the dark.

What unexpected places have you found community in Kentucky? Share below—your story might be the map someone else needs to find home.