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Ruben Valenzuela
Ruben Valenzuela, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Slim
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Astronomy nerd who loves stargazing and deep space talks.
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Frankie Porter
Frankie Porter, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Some High School
Bio: Musician and hopeless romantic. Let’s write our own love symphony.
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Maggie Logan
Maggie Logan, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Adventure seeker and scuba diver. Let’s dive deep, literally and metaphorically.
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Macey Leach
Macey Leach, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Tall
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Teacher with a passion for history. Looking for someone who loves learning and exploring.
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Misty Christian
Misty Christian, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Full-Figured
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Some College
Bio: Aspiring chef with a soft spot for Italian food. Seeking a taste tester for my creations.
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Cheyenne Olson
Cheyenne Olson, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Traveler and foodie. Always planning the next adventure.
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Gabrielle Day
Gabrielle Day, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′6″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Music geek and vinyl collector. Searching for someone who can vibe to my eclectic playlist.
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Randolph Crosby
Randolph Crosby, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Average
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Nature lover and hiking enthusiast. Let's get lost in the woods and find ourselves.
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Chadwick Parrish
Chadwick Parrish, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Lean
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: PhD
Bio: Chef in training with a knack for baking. Seeking a partner to share sweet moments.
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Kristopher Bradford
Kristopher Bradford, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some High School
Bio: Podcast host and news junkie. Looking for someone with big ideas.
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Finding My Queer Voice on Cape Cod: A Journey of Belonging

Have you ever felt like a vibrant rainbow in a sea of beige, wondering if you'll ever truly belong? That was me when I first moved to Barnstable Town three summers ago.

My Barnstable Beginning

The salty air of Cape Cod welcomed me long before many of its residents did. I remember walking down Main Street in Hyannis, watching couples hold hands freely while I calculated whether it was safe for me to be visibly queer in my new hometown. Those first months, I found solace at Sandy Neck Beach, where the vastness of the ocean matched the expansiveness I felt inside yet couldn't express.

When Being Yourself Feels Revolutionary

The challenge wasn't finding other queer folks—we're everywhere, even in small coastal towns—but creating meaningful connections that went beyond the "token queer friend" dynamic. Many of us face similar hurdles:

  • Navigating spaces that aren't explicitly anti-queer but aren't exactly affirming either
  • Finding dating prospects when the pool seems puddle-sized
  • Building community when existing LGBTQ+ groups might be focused on demographics that don't include you
  • Balancing visibility with safety in a tourism-heavy area

Creating Your Queer Cape Compass

What transformed my experience was realizing I didn't need to wait for community—I could help build it. The Barnstable Pride Committee started with just four of us meeting at Cape Cod Coffee! Here's what helped me:

  • Connecting with the Thrive Center for Gender Affirmation downtown
  • Joining mixed social groups based on interests rather than identity
  • Creating informal meetups through social media
  • Being visibly, unapologetically myself at Whaling Museum events

Remember, your authentic presence is a lighthouse for others seeking connection.

You're not alone in navigating queerness in small-town New England. Our stories may have different chapters, but they share common themes of resilience and hope.

What's your Barnstable queer experience? Share below—your story might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.