Finding My Rainbow in Quincy: A Queer Journey by the Bay
Ever wonder what it's like navigating queer life in a historic New England town? Let me tell you, my first winter in Quincy was as cold as the waters of Wollaston Beach, but the warmth I've found in our community has melted even the iciest days.
My Quincy Story
Three years ago, I moved to Quincy Point with nothing but two suitcases and uncertainty. I remember walking through Merrymount Park, wondering if I'd ever find "my people" here. The city's red brick buildings held so much history, but would they make space for my story?
When Connection Feels Impossible
Let's be honest—finding queer community in smaller cities can feel like searching for a rainbow at midnight. Some struggles we've all felt:
- Dating apps showing the same 10 profiles on repeat
- Wondering if that coffee shop is actually queer-friendly
- Feeling caught between Boston's vibrant scene and staying local
- The awkward "So... are you...?" conversations with potential friends
Creating Space When None Exists
The breakthrough came when I stopped waiting for community and started building it. Here's what worked:
- Joining the Quincy LGBTQ+ Coalition meetings at the library
- Starting a monthly potluck rotating through members' homes
- Finding allies at local businesses like Bay Coast Coffee
- Creating a Quincy Queer Events calendar that now has 200+ subscribers
Remember, your visibility creates space for others. Each time I proudly exist here, I become the person I needed when I arrived.
You Are Not Alone on This Shore
Whatever brought you to Quincy—work, love, family, or chance—know that there's a community waiting to embrace you. We're in coffee shops, bookstores, and walking along Shore Drive. We're here.
How did you find your way to Quincy? Share your story below—you never know who needs to hear exactly what you have to say.