Ever Wondered What It's Like Being Queer in Davis Square?
Last night, as rainbow lights reflected off the windows of Diesel Cafe, I felt that unique sense of belonging that Somerville gives us queer folks. Three years ago, I moved here knowing nobody, terrified I'd never find community again.
Finding My People in Somerville
My first Pride festival in Somerville Park changed everything. Between the drag performances and community booths, I met my now-partner Alex while we both volunteered at the same water station. Something about this city makes queer connections feel possible and natural.
The Real Struggles We Face
But let's be honest about the challenges:
- Dating apps here can feel like everyone already knows each other (because they do!)
- Finding queer-friendly housing with reasonable rent feels impossible sometimes
- Winter isolation hits different when you're still building your community
- Navigating the different queer microcommunities takes time
What Actually Works
After lots of trial and error, I've found these approaches help:
- Volunteer at QBAR or Somerville's LGBTQ+ Commission events
- Join recreational sports through GO Queer Boston
- Become a regular at queer-owned businesses
- Attend smaller events at The Burren or Arts at the Armory
Remember, building community isn't linear. Some weeks feel lonely, and that's totally normal. Your experience is valid, and so many of us have been exactly where you are.
What's your Somerville queer experience been like? Share below and let's keep building this beautiful community together! 💖🏳️🌈