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Rashad Osborn
Rashad Osborn, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Broad-Shouldered
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Astronomy nerd who loves stargazing and deep space talks.
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Iridian Justice
Iridian Justice, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′6″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Trade School
Bio: World traveler and language lover. Always dreaming of the next destination.
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Jaquan Hutchinson
Jaquan Hutchinson, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Some College
Bio: Film buff and aspiring director. Let's make our own cinematic love story.
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Kaelyn Armstrong
Kaelyn Armstrong, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Singer and songwriter. Looking for someone to inspire my next love song.
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Ishmael Simpson
Ishmael Simpson, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Average
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Some College
Bio: Artist and coffee aficionado. Searching for a fellow creative spirit.
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Lauren Collins
Lauren Collins, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Lean
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Museum curator and history nerd. Let's time travel through art.
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Sara Delgado
Sara Delgado, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Toned
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Bookworm and aspiring novelist. Looking for someone to share cozy nights and deep conversations.
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Betty Mendoza
Betty Mendoza, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: PhD
Bio: Elementary school teacher with a passion for creativity and kindness.
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Gordon Hewitt
Gordon Hewitt, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Dad Bod
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Some High School
Bio: Passionate about social justice and volunteering. Let’s change the world together!
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Ryder Lang
Ryder Lang, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Architect and design lover. Appreciates fine art and cozy spaces.
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Meet Queer singles in New York today – online dating is the perfect way to start!

Ever Wonder Why Making Queer Connections in NYC Feels Like Finding a Unicorn in Times Square?

Y'all, I still remember my first week in New York - bright-eyed, rainbow-hearted, and completely overwhelmed by the sea of faces rushing past me. I thought moving to the "queer capital" would instantly connect me to my people. Instead, I found myself at a Chelsea bar, nursing an overpriced cocktail while everyone else seemed to already know each other!

The NYC Queer Paradox: So Many of Us, Yet So Hard to Connect

Let's talk about what no one warns you about:

  • Those dating apps where conversations die faster than my plants
  • Friend groups that seem impenetrable unless you knew someone from college
  • The exhaustion of code-switching between work-you and authentic-you
  • The way queerness intersects differently with race, class, and neighborhood in this city

Finding Your People Without Losing Your Mind

After three years here, I've learned some truths that changed everything:

  • Consistency trumps novelty - pick ONE queer book club/sports league/volunteer group and show up regularly
  • Vulnerability is your superpower - be the first to say "I'm looking for friends" without apology
  • Create the space you wish existed - my tiny Queens apartment potlucks became legendary
  • Look beyond the L/G/B/T labels to find your specific intersection of identities

The isolation you might be feeling isn't because you're doing anything wrong. This magnificent, maddening city makes us work for our connections, but trust me when I say your people are searching for you too. The family you create here can sustain you through anything.

Share Your NYC Queer Journey!

How did you find your people? What spaces made you feel at home? Your story might be exactly what someone else needs to hear right now. 💖