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Mckayla Howell
Mckayla Howell, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Average
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Painter and lover of all things colorful. Seeking someone who brings light into my life.
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Kieran Conway
Kieran Conway, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Lean
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: PhD
Bio: Dog mom and fitness lover. Searching for someone to share morning jogs and lazy Sundays.
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Darlene Donovan
Darlene Donovan, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Slim
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Some College
Bio: Loves astrology, tarot, and all things mystical.
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Aidan Mcdaniel
Aidan Mcdaniel, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Aspiring filmmaker who loves storytelling and cinematography.
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Alisa Acosta
Alisa Acosta, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Tech enthusiast and gamer. Enjoys hiking and late-night coding sessions.
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Jesse Dawson
Jesse Dawson, 33 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: PhD
Bio: Film buff and aspiring director. Let’s discuss the nuances of cinema over popcorn.
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Samuel Hernandez
Samuel Hernandez, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Tall
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Passionate about social justice and community work. Let’s change the world together.
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Lillian Porter
Lillian Porter, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′8″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Nature photographer and conservationist. Enjoys quiet hikes and wildlife spotting.
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Skye Graves
Skye Graves, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Architect and design lover. Appreciates fine art and cozy spaces.
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Javonte Mckee
Javonte Mckee, 33 Online: Recently
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: PhD
Bio: Author and poet. Let's write the next great love story together.
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Have you ever watched the snow fall outside your window and felt both completely at peace yet somehow totally alone?

That's how I felt during my first winter in Buffalo. The city wrapped me in its snowy embrace while I navigated being visibly queer in a new place. I remember standing in Elmwood Village, snowflakes catching on my rainbow beanie, wondering if I'd ever find my people here.

Finding Your Queer Family in the Queen City

Buffalo surprised me. Behind the historic architecture and chicken wing fame beats a vibrant queer heart. Yet finding meaningful connections wasn't immediate. Dating apps showed the same 15 people over and over. The lesbian bars I'd researched before moving had closed years ago. Even when I ventured to Underground Niteclub, I stood awkwardly nursing my drink, wondering if I'd ever belong.

We've All Been There

  • Feeling hypervisible yet somehow invisible simultaneously
  • Wondering if every queer person already knows each other
  • Battling seasonal depression while trying to build community
  • Questioning if you're "queer enough" for certain spaces

Your experience is valid. The struggle to find authentic connection isn't just you—it's structural, historical, and shared across our community.

Blooming Where You're Planted

Start small. The Pride Center of WNY hosts regular meetups. Rust Belt Books became my sanctuary—queer-owned and community-focused. Follow @queercitybflo on Instagram for events you won't find elsewhere.

Remember, community happens person-by-person. Sometimes it's just showing up, again and again, until familiar faces become friends who become family.

What's your Buffalo queer experience been like? Share below—someone needs to hear they're not alone in their journey just as much as you did.