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Lonnie Calhoun
Lonnie Calhoun, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Photographer with a passion for capturing love in all forms.
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Hallie Shaw
Hallie Shaw, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Lean
Height: 5′6″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: History buff and museum goer. Always up for a deep conversation over coffee.
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Lizbeth Garza
Lizbeth Garza, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: PhD
Bio: Bookworm with a passion for poetry. Loves quiet evenings with a good novel.
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Alyson Fischer
Alyson Fischer, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Trade School
Bio: Sci-fi geek and aspiring astronaut. Let’s explore the universe together.
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Devin Roberts
Devin Roberts, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Trade School
Bio: Aspiring novelist who thrives on coffee and late-night writing sessions.
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Kelly Ingram
Kelly Ingram, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Dog parent and nature enthusiast. Let’s go for a hike with my furry friend.
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Glen Mcintyre
Glen Mcintyre, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Teacher with a love for board games. Searching for someone to challenge me.
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Celine Wong
Celine Wong, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some College
Bio: Singer-songwriter looking for someone to inspire my next hit.
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Alma Fisher
Alma Fisher, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Petite
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some College
Bio: Loves astrology, tarot, and all things mystical.
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Niko Price
Niko Price, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Therapist and mindfulness coach. Seeking a peaceful and loving connection.
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Queer dating in Durham, North Carolina is easy! Meet singles online and start your love journey.

Finding Home: Queer Connection in the Heart of the South

Have you ever walked down a street feeling both invisible and hypervisible at the same time? That's how I felt when I first moved to Durham as a queer person not knowing a single soul.

My Durham Beginning

I remember wandering through the farmers market at Durham Central Park, rainbow pin nervously attached to my jacket, wondering if I'd ever find my people. Then a vendor with pride flags decorating their stall smiled at me and said, "Welcome home." It was small, but I felt seen in a way I hadn't before.

The Connection Struggle

Finding authentic connections isn't always rainbow crosswalks and pride parades. It's hard when:

  • Dating apps feel like searching for depth in a digital shallow end
  • Friend groups seem established and impenetrable
  • You're never quite sure which spaces are truly safe
  • Southern hospitality sometimes masks true acceptance

Building Your Queer Durham Family

What actually worked for me was showing up consistently rather than broadly. Instead of trying every queer event once, I:

  • Joined the LGBTQ+ book club at Letters Bookshop and became a regular
  • Volunteered monthly at the LGBTQ Center
  • Found my favorite corner at Cocoa Cinnamon where I could just be

Sometimes community isn't found—it's built, one authentic conversation at a time.

You Are Not Alone

The beauty of Durham lies in its contradictions—a progressive gem in a complicated region, where finding your people takes time but creates bonds stronger than anywhere I've lived before.

What's your Durham story? Share below how you found (or are finding) your queer community here. Your words might be exactly what someone else needs to read today. 💜