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Lori Malone
Lori Malone, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Slim
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Cosplay enthusiast and anime lover. Let’s go to conventions together!
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Kerry Meyers
Kerry Meyers, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: World traveler and culture enthusiast. Let’s explore the world one city at a time.
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Emilio Farley
Emilio Farley, 33 Online: Recently
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some College
Bio: Yogi and meditation enthusiast. Let’s grow together in peace and love.
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Aron Burt
Aron Burt, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 6′1″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Pastry chef with a love for chocolate and all things sweet.
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Zakary Bernard
Zakary Bernard, 32 Online: This week
Body Type: Plus-Size
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Some College
Bio: Elementary school teacher with a passion for creativity and kindness.
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Alena Nixon
Alena Nixon, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Full-Figured
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Violet
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Some College
Bio: Artist and coffee aficionado. Searching for a fellow creative spirit.
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Iliana Langley
Iliana Langley, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Bookworm with a passion for poetry. Loves quiet evenings with a good novel.
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Andrea Ayers
Andrea Ayers, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Passionate about social justice and volunteering. Let’s change the world together!
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Kathrine Fisher
Kathrine Fisher, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Divorced
Education: PhD
Bio: Aspiring actor with a love for improv. Let’s see where life’s script takes us.
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Dario Snow
Dario Snow, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Broad-Shouldered
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Trade School
Bio: History buff and museum goer. Always up for a deep conversation over coffee.
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Finding Queer Joy in Small-Town North Carolina

Ever feel like you're the only rainbow flag in a sea of tradition? That was me, three years ago, when I first moved to Hickory, North Carolina – a place where church steeples outnumber Pride flags by about a thousand to one.

My Hickory Beginning

I remember that first week vividly. Unpacking boxes in my little rental near Union Square, wondering if I'd made a terrible mistake. The barista at Taste Full Beans gave me a curious once-over when I ordered my coffee wearing my "Love is Love" t-shirt. I almost turned around and drove back to Asheville right then.

But Hickory surprised me. Behind its traditional Southern facade, I discovered pockets of queer community that felt like finding water in a desert. From the inclusive book club at the local library to the monthly gatherings at LGBTQ-friendly restaurants, connection was possible.

The Invisible Tightrope

Let's be real though – being queer in a small Southern city comes with challenges:

  • Dating apps where the same 12 faces rotate endlessly (and half are "just visiting from Charlotte")
  • The constant mental calculation of when and where it's safe to be fully yourself
  • Building authentic friendships when coming out is a never-ending process
  • Finding healthcare providers who won't make your sexuality the focus of every visit

Creating Your Queer Hickory Map

Here's what I've learned works:

  • Be bold but strategic - wear that Pride pin to the farmer's market; you'll be surprised who notices
  • Connect with Catawba Valley PFLAG - they know where the community gathers
  • Make peace with driving to Charlotte or Asheville sometimes for bigger events
  • Create the space you wish existed - my tiny queer book club now has 15 members

Remember, you're not actually alone here. We're just scattered like fireflies – harder to see until we start glowing together.

What's your Hickory experience been like? Share below and let's light up this comment section with our stories. The person searching for their community might find you in the responses. ✨