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Vicente Norman
Vicente Norman, 31 Online: Today
Body Type: Lean
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Sapiosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Some College
Bio: Tech enthusiast and gamer. Enjoys hiking and late-night coding sessions.
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Kylie Clemons
Kylie Clemons, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Occasionally
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: PhD
Bio: Author and poet. Let's write the next great love story together.
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Stephan Heath
Stephan Heath, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Yoga teacher and mindfulness coach. Seeking peace, love, and connection.
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Kerry Walters
Kerry Walters, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: PhD
Bio: Architect and design lover. Appreciates fine art and cozy spaces.
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Lizette Cline
Lizette Cline, 30 Online: This week
Body Type: Soft-Feminine
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Fashion enthusiast and thrift store hunter. Seeking a partner in style.
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Marcel Bowers
Marcel Bowers, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: World traveler and language lover. Always dreaming of the next destination.
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Coty Jefferson
Coty Jefferson, 30 Online: Today
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: DIY queen and plant mom. Let’s build something beautiful together.
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Tabitha Bond
Tabitha Bond, 31 Online: This week
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Personal trainer and nutrition coach. Health and happiness are my priorities.
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Troy Burgess
Troy Burgess, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Graysexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: High School Diploma
Bio: Fitness enthusiast and aspiring chef. Loves morning runs and trying new recipes.
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Zoey Sanford
Zoey Sanford, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Lean
Height: 5′7″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Some High School
Bio: Fashion design student with a passion for bold colors and self-expression.
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Finding Queer Joy in Tulsa: My Journey Home

Have you ever felt like you're both invisible and too visible at the same time? That's how I felt when I first came out in Tulsa—like I was simultaneously unseen by those who matter and scrutinized by those who don't.

My Tulsa Story

Last summer, I returned to Tulsa after five years away. I stood beneath the golden Driller statue, sweating in the Oklahoma heat, wondering if I'd made a terrible mistake. The city I remembered was far from a queer haven. Yet within weeks, I found myself at a crowded table at Guthrie Green's food truck event, surrounded by fellow LGBTQ+ folks who became chosen family.

The Struggle Is Real

Being queer in Tulsa comes with unique challenges:

  • Dating apps that show the same 20 people over and over
  • The awkward "coming out" to new colleagues repeatedly
  • Finding safe spaces when some venues still feel unwelcoming
  • Balancing visibility with safety in a politically complex state

Finding Your People

What I've learned is that our community exists in beautiful pockets throughout the city. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center offers more than resources—it offers connection. Meadow Gold District gatherings become impromptu queer socials. Even church spaces like Fellowship Congregational have become sanctuaries for many of us.

Remember, your authentic existence here matters. Every time you live openly, you create space for someone else to do the same. We're writing a new Tulsa story together—one that includes all of us.

Share your Tulsa queer experience below. Where have you found community here? What spaces make you feel seen? Your story might be exactly what another person needs to read today.