Does Anyone Else Feel Like They're the Only Queer Person in Erie Sometimes?
I still remember that winter evening at Presque Isle, watching the sunset paint the sky in shades of pink and purple. It felt like the universe was giving me a little wink – a rainbow moment just for me. Moving to Erie three years ago, I didn't expect to find myself, but somehow between the lakeside walks and quiet coffee shop corners, I did.
When Small Town Meets Queer Reality
Let's be honest – dating here isn't exactly like the queer paradise depicted in Schitt's Creek. The dating apps recycle the same 15 profiles, and sometimes it feels like everyone knows everyone's business before you've even had your first date!
- That awkward moment when your ex and your current crush both show up at the only gay-friendly event in town
- Driving 2+ hours to Pittsburgh just to experience a proper Pride celebration
- Explaining to family why you keep "bringing friends" to holiday gatherings
Finding Your People in Unexpected Places
What saved me was stopping the search for a "scene" and starting to create one instead. The queer community here is small but mighty! The Erie Art Museum's evening events, Basement Transmissions shows, and even the Thursday night book club at Blasco Library have become unexpected havens.
Remember that you're never as alone as you feel. For every queer person thinking they're the only one in Erie, there are dozens feeling the exact same way. We're just scattered, waiting to connect.
Let's Build Together
What spaces have you carved out in Erie? Share your story below – your favorite queer-friendly spots, how you met your partner, or just your everyday triumphs and struggles. Your experience might be exactly what someone else needs to hear right now.