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Bobbie Grant
Bobbie Grant, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Questioning
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Fashion enthusiast and thrift store hunter. Seeking a partner in style.
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Ronnie Prince
Ronnie Prince, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Broad-Shouldered
Height: 5′4″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Some College
Bio: Painter and lover of all things colorful. Seeking someone who brings light into my life.
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Jamie Rios
Jamie Rios, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Petite
Height: 6′0″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Lifelong gamer and sci-fi geek. Let’s co-op our way through life.
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Sophia Rodgers
Sophia Rodgers, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: No Formal Education
Bio: Traveler and foodie. Always planning the next adventure.
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Gregorio Sharpe
Gregorio Sharpe, 33 Online: Today
Body Type: Soft-Masculine
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Trade School
Bio: Tech nerd and gamer. Can you beat me at Mario Kart? Let’s find out!
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Sawyer Beach
Sawyer Beach, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 5′5″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Trying to Quit
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Trade School
Bio: Entrepreneur and coffee connoisseur. Always looking for the next big idea.
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Sade Lowery
Sade Lowery, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Voluptuous
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Green
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Rarely
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: World traveler and language lover. Always dreaming of the next destination.
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Kelsey Wright
Kelsey Wright, 31 Online: Recently
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Amber
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Animal rescuer and advocate. Searching for a fellow animal lover.
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Quincy Mcleod
Quincy Mcleod, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Slim
Height: 5′0″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Social Smoker
Sexuality: Demisexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Some College
Bio: Lover of art museums and cozy bookstores. Let’s get lost in a world of creativity.
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Nicole Butler
Nicole Butler, 28 Online: Recently
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Never
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Single
Education: Prefer Not to Say
Bio: Adventure seeker and scuba diver. Let’s dive deep, literally and metaphorically.
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Queer dating in Brentwood, Tennessee – meet singles online and explore new possibilities.

Finding My Queer Voice in a Tennessee Suburb

Have you ever felt like you're the only queer person in a 10-mile radius? That was me three years ago when I moved to Brentwood, Tennessee with nothing but two suitcases and a rainbow keychain tucked discretely in my pocket.

My Brentwood Beginning

The tree-lined streets and pristine shopping centers of Brentwood welcomed me with Southern charm, but I quickly realized that finding my people wouldn't be as straightforward as finding the best hot chicken. I remember sitting alone at Puffy Muffin, scrolling through dating apps and seeing the same five profiles over and over again. The isolation felt suffocating despite being surrounded by some of the friendliest folks I'd ever met.

When "Y'all" Doesn't Feel Like It Includes You

The struggle to connect authentically while navigating suburban life is real. Here's what made it challenging:

  • Dating pools that feel more like dating puddles
  • Social gatherings where you're constantly monitoring your pronouns/references
  • Finding safe spaces to fully express yourself
  • The exhausting double life of code-switching between work and personal life

Creating Queer Community in Unexpected Places

What saved me wasn't finding the perfect gay bar (spoiler: there aren't any in Brentwood proper), but rather:

  • Starting a monthly book club that "happened" to read queer authors
  • Connecting with Nashville's LGBTQ+ center and bringing their resources outward
  • Finding allies at local coffee shops who helped create mini-safe spaces
  • Being visibly, authentically me—even when it felt scary

You are not alone in this beautiful, complicated place. Our community exists in the in-between spaces, in knowing glances, in the courage to speak our truth. Share your Brentwood story below—what spaces have you made your own? Together, we're writing a new narrative for suburban queer life, one that doesn't require us to drive to the city to feel seen.