Finding My Queer Joy in The Colony: A Journey Worth Taking
Have you ever felt like you're the only rainbow in a monochrome sky? That was me three years ago when I first moved to The Colony, Texas.
My Small-Town Queer Awakening
I remember driving down Main Street, wondering if I'd ever find my people here. The suburban landscape of The Colony seemed so different from the vibrant queer communities I'd known before. The first time I nervously walked into Stewart Creek Park wearing my pride pin, I was prepared for stares. Instead, I met Jamie, another queer resident who became my first local friend.
When Invisibility Feels Like Your Superpower
Let's be honest about the struggles:
- Dating apps that show matches 30+ miles away (hello, Dallas commute!)
- The subtle code-switching at neighborhood gatherings
- That awkward moment when someone assumes your "roommate" is just a roommate
- Finding spaces that feel truly welcoming, not just tolerant
Creating Queer Community Where You Are
What I've learned is that queer joy exists everywhere—sometimes we just need to nurture it ourselves:
- The monthly meetups at Hundred Acre Wood have grown from 5 to 25 people
- Small signals matter: my pride flag window sticker has sparked beautiful conversations
- Our online group "Queer Colony" connects folks who might never meet otherwise
- Alliances with local businesses like Gypsy Café who host our book club
Remember, your existence here matters. Every time you live authentically, you're creating space for someone else. You're not just surviving in The Colony—you're helping build the community we all deserve.
What's your experience been like? Share below and let's continue building this beautiful, messy, vital community together. You belong here. We all do.