Have You Ever Felt Like The Only Rainbow Fish in Green Bay's Waters?
That feeling hit me hard when I first moved to Green Bay three winters ago. The Packers flags were everywhere, but pride flags? Those were rare gems that made my heart skip whenever I spotted one.
Finding My Place Among the Frozen Tundra
I remember walking along the Fox River Trail, bundled in layers, wondering if I'd ever find "my people" here. Then one snowy evening at Kavarna Coffeehouse, I noticed a small rainbow pin on the barista's apron. We made eye contact, shared that knowing smile, and suddenly Wisconsin felt a little warmer.
The Invisible Tightrope We Walk
- Dating apps showing the same 12 profiles within a 50-mile radius
- The hesitation before mentioning your partner at work functions
- Explaining to family why you "need" to drive to Milwaukee or Madison some weekends
- That constant calculation of when and where it's safe to hold hands
Creating Your Queer Oasis in Titletown
Green Bay's queer community might be smaller than Milwaukee's, but we're mighty. Connect with Positive Voice, our local LGBTQ+ organization. Their monthly meetups saved me during that first lonely winter. The Harmony Café events, though infrequent, are worth marking your calendar for.
Remember that building community here takes time and intention. Start small—be the person you needed when you first arrived.
You Belong Here Too
Your queerness belongs among these snowy pines and alongside the frozen bay. The challenges we face don't make us less worthy of calling this place home.
What's your Green Bay story? Have you found your people here yet? Share below—someone reading might be looking for exactly the connection you're offering.