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Benjamin Dean
Benjamin Dean, 29 Online: This week
Body Type: Plus-Size
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Occasionally
Sexuality: Androsexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Some High School
Bio: Lover of all things fashion and beauty. Looking for someone to share late-night talks and brunch dates.
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Breanne West
Breanne West, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Busty
Height: 5′3″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Homosexual
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Nature lover who enjoys weekend camping trips. Seeking someone to stargaze with.
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Sarah Hodges
Sarah Hodges, 32 Online: Today
Body Type: Muscular
Height: 5′11″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Polysexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Artist and coffee aficionado. Searching for a fellow creative spirit.
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Jamel Bryan
Jamel Bryan, 29 Online: Today
Body Type: Hourglass
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Hazel
Drinking: Frequently
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Prefer Not to Say
Relationship: Single
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Language learner and world traveler. Looking for a partner in global adventures.
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Stetson Hewitt
Stetson Hewitt, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Stocky
Height: 5′2″
Eyes: Red
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Heavy Smoker
Sexuality: Gynosexual
Relationship: Polyamorous
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Tech geek and video game lover. Let’s build something amazing together.
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Markell Owen
Markell Owen, 28 Online: Today
Body Type: Petite
Height: 5′10″
Eyes: Brown
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Prefer Not to Say
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Prefer Not to Say
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Bio: Surfer and beach lover. Searching for a seaside romance.
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Keanu Webster
Keanu Webster, 28 Online: This week
Body Type: Dad Bod
Height: 4′11″
Eyes: Prefer Not to Say
Drinking: Heavy Drinker
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Sexuality: Heterosexual
Relationship: Open Relationship
Education: Some College
Bio: Folk musician and nature lover. Let’s make music in the mountains.
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Randall Mcdaniel
Randall Mcdaniel, 32 Online: Recently
Body Type: Pear-Shaped
Height: 5′9″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Rarely
Smoking: Vapes Only
Sexuality: Skoliosexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Associate Degree
Bio: Chef with a love for spicy food. Let’s turn up the heat!
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Stefanie Nelson
Stefanie Nelson, 29 Online: Recently
Body Type: Androgynous
Height: 5′1″
Eyes: Gray
Drinking: Prefer Not to Say
Smoking: Never
Sexuality: Pansexual
Relationship: It's Complicated
Education: Master's Degree
Bio: Podcast host and news junkie. Looking for someone with big ideas.
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Danica Jefferson
Danica Jefferson, 30 Online: Recently
Body Type: Toned
Height: 6′2″
Eyes: Blue
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Frequently
Sexuality: Queer
Relationship: Divorced
Education: Currently a Student
Bio: Fitness coach by day, Netflix binger by night. Looking for someone to keep me on my toes.
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Finding Your Queer Joy in Small-Town Wisconsin

Have you ever felt like the only rainbow fish in a very straight pond? That was me five years ago when I first moved to Wausau—a place where the winters are long but the journey to self-acceptance can feel even longer.

My Wausau Story

I still remember that first winter here, trudging through snow to the only coffee shop downtown, scanning faces and wondering if anyone else was like me. The barista with the subtle pride pin became my first friend, then introduced me to what I now call my chosen family. We meet at Deb's Café every Thursday, a small but mighty queer gathering in a sea of Northwoods plaid.

When Being "The Only One" Gets Heavy

Let's be honest about the struggles:

  • Dating apps show the same 12 people within a 50-mile radius
  • Well-meaning neighbors who keep asking when you'll "find a nice boy/girl"
  • That constant calculation about when and where it's safe to be yourself
  • Winter isolation that amplifies loneliness

Creating Your Queer Oasis

What I've learned is that queerness in smaller cities isn't about waiting for the community to find you—it's about creating the space yourself. Start small: the UWMC campus has a quiet pride group. The Wausau Art Museum hosts inclusive events. Online, the "Queer Northwoods" Facebook group connects folks across central Wisconsin.

Remember, your authenticity is never too much for this place—it's what will eventually transform it.

How are you finding or building community where you are? Your strategies might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.